What is Real?

"What is REAL?" the new Teddy Bear asked the old Teddy
Bear one day. "Does it mean having things that buzz inside
you and a stick-out handle?"
"REAL
isn't how you are made", replied the old Teddy Bear. "It's a
thing that happens to you. When a child loves you for a long,
long time, not just to play with, but REALLY loves you, then you become
REAL. It doesn't happen all at once. You become. It
takes a long time. Generally, by the time you are REAL, most of
your hair has been loved off, and your eyes drop out and you get loose
in the joints and very shabby. But these things don't matter at
all, because once you are REAL you can't be ugly, except to people who
don't understand."